I think, I want a non-sexual relationship, for now. That kind of relationship wherein kissing is the farthest thing we’ll do and there’s no sexual intercourse involve. I know that physical satisfaction is great. Knowing that you take your partner to the threshold of ecstasy gives you that mighty and triumphant feeling. Knowing that you able to fulfill her sexual fantasies in bed makes you confident that you’re not a lousy bedmate. But then again, those things are not the only things a relationship offers. Actually, there’s a lot more aside from that. I know some couples who are having this kind of relationship and they, managed to stick with each other for a long time. Physical contacts are essential in a relationship, but for now let’s just enjoy those things hugs, kisses and holding hands has. For now, let’s just stay where we are and let’s not cross the line because once we do, things will never be the same again. I know there are ways on how you can do it without worrying about it’s possible consequences, but let’s just be contented with our set-up. Sex or making love, whatever you call it, for me should be done on the right time and it shouldn’t be rush.
For now, let’s just forget about those things and as much as possible, don’t bring that issue. Though there are times when we’re talking about intimate things and that’s making me hot and bothered, but I’ll try to resist it and think of our morals. Let’s stick with this. And I respect you. I don’t wanna ask you to do it, just because I want to, because when the right time comes, it’s not just me who will want it, it’s us both. And I’ll wait for that. For now, let’s just enjoy each other’s company, eat good food, take long walks, stuff like that. Kissing you is enough, at least for now. I’ll just be contented with holding your hands, kissing your forehead and cheeks, hugging you close. I don’t want to take it to the point where my hands are doing things they have no business of doing. Those little things I know can start the fire but when you feel like I’m already going out of my mind, tell me to stop, and even if it’s too hard, I’ll stop.
Other people might say that relationship like that doesn’t have a room in this modern world, but let’s prove them wrong. It’s about self-control and being open-minded. Besides, we didn’t enter in a relationship because of those things. We are attracted physically yes, but you know what really get us more bonded? It is the meeting of emotional needs. We are not just kissing buddies, we are emotional partners. Your sharing your happiness, loneliness, depression and stress with me, and I’m like that to you too. I want us to share everything together. Let me in to your deepest thoughts, to your mind, to your soul. That is more than naked, isn’t it? I’ll let you in to my soul, on my ambitions, point of vies, dilemmas. And together, let’s be naked. You can learn a lot from your partner not just in an intimate sort of way.